When it comes to planning for the future, many people delay or avoid making key decisions – especially those involving things we don’t like to talk about, like death or incapacity. In the short term, it can feel easier to kick the can down the road. However, failing to plan can leave your loved ones in a difficult position, both emotionally and financially. Not leaving clear instructions, such as a valid will, appropriate powers of attorney and up to date death benefit nominations, can lead to misunderstandings and have lasting consequences.
The reality of intestacy rules
As a financial adviser, I find that many of my clients during their review meetings mention that they need to update their will or admit they’re not quite sure what its main provisions are. Occasionally, though, I do still hear, “I don’t need a will everything will just go to my wife/husband or children automatically.”
Unfortunately, this isn’t always true. If you die without a valid will in the UK, your estate is distributed according to the intestacy rules, which are rigid and can be misaligned with modern family structures.[1] For example:
- Unmarried partners receive nothing under intestacy. There is no such thing as a ‘common-law spouse’ in UK Law.[2]
- If you’re married with children, your spouse may not inherit everything.
- Stepchildren and close friends are excluded entirely.


